Life is such that you must continuously learn a thing or two everyday in order to grow. You can learn something from virtually every situation if you put your mind to it which includes these 5 lessons you must have learnt from your first love without knowing it.
Here Are The Five Lessons Your First Love Thought You Unknowingly:
1. CARE FOR SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT RELATED TO.
For most people, their first love is also the first person they cared for who was not a relative. The kind of care in question here is not what you give to any of your friends. Obviously the kind of care and attention we give to our lover is not the same as what we give to others.
It is a lesson worth learning as humans. We need to care for others no matter who they are. And the good news also is that there is a blessing in caring for others.
2. BEING 100 PERCENT COMFORTABLE AROUND SOMEONE.
Your first love or relationship is almost always difficult to start. There is this fear of entering a relationship since its your first time. Boys may find it difficult to approach a girl they like and even if they do approach, they are normally unable to feel at ease when talking with the girl. Likewise a girl/lady on her first date with a guy may be shy around him hence may not be comfortable to express herself properly.
However as the relationship grows you all begin to feel more at ease and 100 percent comfortable around each other. We all need someone we can feel comfortable around.
3. VULNERABLE AROUND SOMEONE.
Love can make even the strongest of people to be vulnerable. A perfect example is embedded in the Bible in the story of Sampson and Delila. Sampson is believed to have being the strongest man of his time but due to love, he became vulnerable and was defeated. Same thing applies in our generation as well. When someone is in love, they almost always become vulnerable around their partner and tell them things ordinarily they shouldn’t have said.
4. DIFFICULTY IN LEAVING SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
Your first love or relationship must have thought you the difficulty in leaving someone you truly love. This may not always be the case in some instances though hence it is only those who had difficulty in letting their first love go who can attest to the difficulty in leaving the one you love.
5. LOVE HAS ITS OWN CHALLENGES.
First timers who entered into relationships thinking its all rosy like they see in movies will notice first hand that it is not always so. There are challenges in every relationship and both parties must put an effort in overcoming such challenges when they arise.